Knapps Theory and My Relationship

In review of Knapps relationship theory, the phase that most stood out to me was experimentation. My boyfriend and I solely met over social media. He first followed me on Instagram, and then I Snapchatted him. Some may say at this point that the rest is history and I would argue that this this is the most embarrassing way to meet your boyfriend. However, before we ever met in person we Snapchatted one another every day for several weeks (due to the fact that this was in the thick of COVID and we could not meet up in person). If it weren’t for the ability to communicate online my boyfriend and I would have never dated, or even met. Snapchat allowed us to discover common interests, learn what a typical day looks like for the other person and get general get to know you questions out of the way. When we finally met in person for the first time it felt like we had been friends for a long time maybe since we had communicated online extraneously, or maybe because we were meant for each other.

XO, Lauren Alexis

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